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Like how should one go about studying bare acts for judiciary
why are STs being given twice their population share???
why is EWS only for women? and its opening-up to all castes is absurd, since OBC-NCL has similar income criteria, and SC/ST don't even have creamy layer limitations
why are we cutting PwD reservation from 5 to 3? just to get a neat number? its horizontal anyways so your math is bad as well
legally a Pasmanda-Muslim reservation is stupid as it invites conversion hopping, much better to have as OBC sub-categorisation, or SC sub-categorisation when thats legalised
agree with no domicile reservation and exclusion of upper OBCs though
also imagine giving reservation to non-citizens, only slightly less absurd than lavender reservation ( literally just identify as NB and claim quota, you don't have to prove anything )
Jindal is only for the very rich, what you do fucks over the general middle class ( they may not be underprivileged, but they are also not privileged )
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, someone who isn't a student but on the other side
So I was looking for direct admission in jgls
My budget is around 3-7L / appearance.
Here are the diagnostic criteria from the american psychological association, 6 out of these 8 is supposed to indicate gender dysphoria in children:
- -A strong desire to be of the other gender or an insistence that one is the other gender (or some alternative gender different from one’s assigned gender)
- -In boys (assigned gender), a strong preference for cross-dressing or simulating female attire; or in girls (assigned gender), a strong preference for wearing only typical masculine clothing and a strong resistance to the wearing of typical feminine clothing
- -A strong preference for cross-gender roles in make-believe play or fantasy play
- -A strong preference for the toys, games or activities stereotypically used or engaged in by the other gender
- -A strong preference for playmates of the other gender
- -In boys (assigned gender), a strong rejection of typically masculine toys, games, and activities and a strong avoidance of rough-and-tumble play; or in girls (assigned gender), a strong rejection of typically feminine toys, games, and activities
- -A strong dislike of one’s sexual anatomy
- -A strong desire for the physical sex characteristics that match one’s experienced gender
Heres the link: https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/gender-dysphoria/what-is-gender-dysphoria
now right away I think 6 of those 8 things are just- disagreeing with gender stereotypes. cross dressing in kids is very common. If youre a boy- your mom probably has some childhood photos of you where youre trying on her clothes or youre trying on make up or something. If youre a girl- you probably remember being a kid and thinking frilly dresses are scratchy and wanting to wear boy clothes cause theyre easy to run around in.
strong preference for cross gender roles in make believe? I liked being the husband when i played house with friends- The man got to do interesting things like go to work and come home and then demand that his wife do things for him. Who wouldnt want that? Im sure there are boys who were similarly drawn to being the woman because the kid playing the wife gets to run around in the kitchen set and play with baby dolls . That doesnt prove that someone is trans- these are kids!- theyre literally playing pretend!
preference of playmates of the other gender! so little boys and little girls cant want to play with each other! most of my play mates were male! they were my best friends cause they liked the same cartoons and they were roughly my size and in my locality- thats all it takes for kids to make someone their best friend.
Boys avoiding rough and tumble play and girls not wanting to do feminine play? are we joking? some boys just dont like getting hurt- most kids dont like getting hurt. Most girls I knew would rather be out riding their bikes than sitting at home pouring tea. this is again- adherence to stereotypes.
Young girls and boys dont know what their sexual anatomy is about- unless theyve been told its dirty by the elders in their house or unless theyve been molested- they likely wouldnt feel any disgust at their private parts. I didnt know what man parts looked like until I was quite a bit older- I bet most children dont know what the opposite sex's private parts look like. So its not some inner sense of "oh I should have a penis instead of a vagina". Children dont think that clearly. but according to the DSM 5 this is a diagnostic criteria for gender dysphoria in kids too.
6 out of these 8- you can just get that by being a gay, lesbian, autistic, wild kid who doesnt like stereotypical things- its called having a personality. Not liking ones private parts can be an indication of abuse and is likely that far more than some inner gender soul.
But this is what all of "youth gender medicine" is built on. You meet 6/8 of these criteria- you get a diagnosis of gender dysphoria , you get put on puberty blockers, then 98% of the time you get moved on to cross sex hormones and then surgeries. Of course youre gonna have misdiagnosed a lot of kids. Of course the detrans rates are booming. this is not medical diagnosis- this is reading tea leaves. based on this we're supposed to be giving cancer drugs and castration drugs to young children who dont know and cannot understand what the consequences for their health and lifestyle would be?
Gender identity and dysphoria is supposed to be this mystical inexplicable thing- and its "reductive" to say its about stereotypes- but the DSM criteria sure seem to be based on stereotypes no?
its insane. Read the cass review. its long but its worth it. Listen to the shellenberger tapes on wpath and listen to people who left tavistock clinic under protest. The doctors knew what was going on- they were joking about transing the gay away.
We prescribe medicine and surgeries after clinical trials and long term follow up and rigorous diagnostic tests and we know that it will work. It’s called evidence based medicine.
No child can consent to this stuff given how serious this is. Even if some might feel better in the immediate aftermath - they cannot meaningfully consent and they’re often not even informed about all the risks. Thinking we should still do it is thinking that “do no harm” shouldn’t be the first principle of medical practice. And thinking that there should be freedom to experiment on children outside of clinical trials.
The studies are in - it’s not just the class review, it’s all the systematic evidence reviews done by Nordic countries , it’s European countries all rolling this back - there is no proof that puberty blockers and hormones and surgeries prevent suicide. This is a medical scandal.
It’s not - I put up and study and you put up a study and we have to call it even. We can actually read studies to think through whether we buy the methods or the interpretation. Or maybe they don’t teach that at university anymore. In any case your link leads to a self reported survey that still doesn’t support your point of view. If adult transgendered people are committing suicide despite transition - why is transitioning life saving care ?
That’s what the NCBI study showed - that suicidality doesn’t reduce after transition.
These are adult transgendered people. Presumably they’ve started transition. Why then are they still committing suicide ? What are the comorbidities ? Is this a self report or are these tracking emergency visits like the NCBI study ?
The lie isn’t that there isn’t suicide. The lie is that there is child suicide and that transitioning prevents Suicide. There is no proof of either. The study you’ve cited doesn’t prove your point.
I have had to navigate this entire exchange thinking I will be censored because even before one post you showed your bias where you assume people will be bigoted and hateful. Why is that ? Consider that you’re not as pure as you think you are.
Consider also that for those of us who have been on this side of the debate for so long - and we’ve been consistently shut down because we’re allegedly “bigoted” and “hateful” and being told to shut up and not think and “be kind”- that kind of grandstanding about “kindness” particularly stings.
If you thought children were being mutilated and harmed en masse, if you thought women were being raped and assaulted and murdered and violated, if you thought the few opportunities given to women in short lists and sports were now being taken away, in fact the very language for women to articulate their collective struggles was now deemed “phobic”. And you had been trying to tell people- and instead every time you tried to speak you had to face being called a bigot and hateful and being censored and be told you were unkind all because you cared enough to educate yourself - consider how measured your words would be.
I think terfs on twitter are remarkably composed given they’re constantly being told by an online mob to “choke on trans girld*ck” you have zero clue what it’s been like for those of us who have been aware of these harms for a long long time. Just go look up “terf” on twitter and see all the abuse. That’s why you can’t imagine why were agitated or why we might resent being told to be kind by someone who hasn’t even bothered to understand our positions before scolding us. Doing that - that’s bigoted if anything. Be kind is the current day version of “you’re so shrill”. It’s sexist nonsense. Go on and find one truly unkind thing I’ve said.- I’ll defend all of it.
The other side doesn’t have a response. I’ve been in the same argument a hundred times now. The other side never produces evidence and never actually bothers debating or considering what terfs are saying. They just want to shame us as bigots and silence us because this whole movement is built on lies, deception and a fundamentally flawed understanding of what good people do. I’ll bet money. There won’t be a response.
We don’t fundamentally agree with each other on anything. I know you want to think everyone’s good - especially the men who silence women- but it’s just not true. There really are people who want to harm others and there really are useful idiots who enable them.
The only person who had had to face adhominem on this thread constantly is me. If you really go back and read the posts you’ll see that but you likely won’t.
Suicides appear to be real and not a lie (though research on both sides will always have a difficult time isolating causes and correlation, much like the link you shared also):
https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/transpop-suicide-press-release/
> You cannot be accusing me of hate and ignorance and policing my tone when you cannot honestly say youve considered and read any of the literature ive brought up in this exchange before forming an opinion.
Moderating tone and stopping toxicity is actually one of the main points of moderation, so thank you for making your point in a more balanced manner. It would help the strength of the 'Terf' side if the more vocal ones on Twitter stopped assuming that all people disagreeing with them must be woman-haters or 'religious' crazy cult people, as it would behove the twitter trans activists from bashing terfs as transphobes or out of touch.
There are probably more things both sides agree on than disagree on.
That's why tone and the way you say should be important to mods, not just what you say - because the real harm both sides cause is to stop debate, because it gets replaced with ad hominem personal attacks where facts don't matter anymore.
Why is a so called ‘senior partner’ calling a fellow partner sir?!? How is this a professional Organization if such Ji Hazoori is still the norm! Do these younger partners also insist everyone calls them sir! Residents of such ivory towers I must say!
Chotte sardar is driving i7- aap log kya chala rahein ho!!
It's okay to have such dreams. While your logic to buy a Merc at 25 with "projected net worth" is completely flawed, I appreciate your ambitions. You can definitely buy a German in your career if you stay long enough, but not so soon for sure.