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When you put all the facts together.
I can hire and pay men to do the things I need done. A driver. A security guard. A pick me up artist. I have options.
Same time I can spend time with my girl gang and I know that lot envies me as I travel the world and get accolades.
Do i feel empty inside? No. But but my married friends sure do.
Its protecting their turf in the name of protecting traditions.
It challenges their bored husbands and their worldview.
Men are quite easy btw, if you need a quick fix, even the taken ones will agree in a heartbeat. You just need to make a move.
We have no clue who is in the wrong but we know who is spending hours plotting.
There have been attacks on this very platform on many individuals in this profession.
I think this lays bare what goes into some of the obvious malicious attempt to discredit some.
If you need a good answer - if its unbearable - walk out. If it crosses a line - formally complain.
Keep it simple. You're not doing anyone any favours with seeking help solve your grudges.
This line of thinking was what gave gundas business. You're not better if you go through.
PS: if a PPO is your goal, make sure that the team is looking to hire from your batch otherwise it would a waste of time.
Now, Aravind Venugopal will fill his shoes?
Would be grateful for any leads . Are there any firms (Tier 1, 2 or even boutique ) still hiring for the graduating batch of 2025 ?
At the outset, I request you to please be kind to me here. I am not an LI user and this is my first time asking for help. I grew up in a modest home, with my dad on government payroll that got divided between my fees, ration, EMI and sending half of it back to his home town to ailing parents - so I always grew up with slightly less than what I needed and not what I wanted.
Worked my way up to a t2 law school and got placed in a firm offering a t1 salary. I will be moving to Bangalore next month to start.
I want to understand how to manage my finances. What are my best investment options - my brother is big on stock market and I am not but since he understands the risks and everything, I am planning to send 10% of my salary to him to invest in the market. 20% I am planning to put in SIPs. 5% in digital gold. Should I consider mutual funds? I don't have a lot of knowledge here on. Trying to do my research, but someone having gone along the similar lines can help please?
I want to keep some money vacant for myself. Buy some good quality formal clothes and not rely on street thrifting for once, buy a good laptop/ ipad, reserve money for takeouts and get online OTT subscriptions to help destress. Would it be a bad idea to save up for myself?
As I am writing this, I understand the best person to ask would be my dad - as I am here because of his impeccable financial management, but he also never kept anything to himself, and I am not sure if that's how I want to live.
A little help, or even some direction towards useful resources will help. Thanks!
Divorce, adultery, alcohol dependence, smoking addiction, vaping, substance abuse, psychiatric and mental disorders and constant medication.
Missing vacations, missing family and friends, missing weddings and celebrations and funerals.
Missed doctor appointments, delayed appointments etc.