Don’t talk about stuff you don’t know. You can google and see that there are tons of articles on mental health websites about friendzoning. See the example below. Where this can become toxic and dangerous is if you feel that you were dumped because you are poor, and then you listen to Andrew Tate and become a misogynist and believe in the 80-20 rule. Instead, you should be positive and try to find a partner who likes you as you are, even if you are poor. For every girl or guy who is money-minded, there is someone who is not.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201303/avoiding-the-friend-zone-becoming-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend?amp

It’s not because of social media, but rather only Instagram and TikTok. Gen Y had social media too: Facebook, MySpace and Orkut. But Gen Z has been influenced mostly by Instagram and TikTok. The algorithm of Instagram is such that you see only rich guys flaunting their wealth and beautiful women, so you get insecure (even though 90% of these people are fake and lying). As for Tiktok, post Trump’s win in 2016 it’s become a polarising place where you choose between racist Nazis who post hate speech and batshit crazy wokes who glorify Hamas and want to burn JK Rowling alive for opposing trans participation in women’s sports. Literally nothing in between.

All that you said used to happen earlier also in terms of incidents only. What has changed is how people react to it nowadays. I think it's social media. Social media has set very high expectations of us from ourselves. While earlier we used to be normal about such incidents when they occurred, now we feel like biggest losers because of brain diabetes from so much social media consumption. Our brains are interpreting life's normal ups and downs as threats and stressors for the perfect life story we may have built in our heads.

tch. Everyone has dramatic moments during adolescence. It is bizarre to me that you all grow up thinking the world didn't exist before you and no one had lived a life or faced problems.

In fact, you're living in the best possible time you could live in in history. Every bit of knowledge is at your fingertips; advances in medicine mean you're not dying of polio as a child, and even AIDS is basically just a condition you live with now. There are many cancers that are basically cured. You think bigotry and oppression and all your causes are bad now? How much worse would it have been had you been born 40 years ago? Here's a question-—when was the last time you were hungry? I mean, really hungry? Like, you need nutrition now hungry? Do you know how fortunate you are to not know that kind of hunger? I know young people have developing brains and little common sense—but Jesus—go touch some grass.

Nothing you've described is atypical of any other normal teenager. Your hormones are jumping all over the place and it leads to hightened emotions. Your generation just likes to pathologize everything and turn everything into an identity. You don't have mental health issues. You're having a bad day now and then. Deal with it and move on. Stop victimizing yourselves. No one is impressed by your many oppression points.

Did you know what it took to be 80 NLS grads in 2000? Do you know how hard you had to work and how lucky you had to be? Would you like to go back there? Would you rather NLS stop admitting more students and stick to 80? You cannot complain about everything-—if NLS admits more people, " oh not everyone is getting the best jobs" if nls doesnt admit more people " oh legal education is so elite" . No one owes you a job. Become someone worth hiring, someone who would contribute to the world around them, their employer, their firm, their family, their community, or whatever.

Hey, I am an incoming associate at a t1 in delhi. I know every month the firm is going to drop about 1.35L in my bank account. Now, I am engaged as a retainer, so what are the tax benefits I will be getting, what will be the tax amount I should be paying? I am so confused about this and tax has always been my achilles heel. Ideally my CTC for the FY is 21LPA but considering the bonus to be pro-rata, I should be getting around 18LPA.

Certainty does not exist in an environment where the law is in flux and the regulatory process is personality driven (i.e., based on which case officer gets assigned to your file).

Deal teams need to understand that not highlighting the issues and points of uncertainty can cause trouble later on - including for the deal team, since they may have a higher degree of client interface and are the point of matter generation.

I’ve had very good working relationships with deal teams that understand this. I’ve also worked with deal teams that don’t understand this… and, well, god bless them.

Hi everyone, as evident by the subject, I want to know if cold emailing works at khaitan or you can get hired (laterally) only by filing the form on their website? There is never a vacancy for Mumbai Disputes on their careers page and idk if I should try cold emailing the HR or not. Any help is appreciated. Thank you very much

Negative bump!

As a positive example to people to do their own research, this thread should be made hard to find. Employ similar lowering-of-visibility mechanisms to what Elon Musk had in mind when he took over Twitter and had to deal with the question of combatting hate speech. LI has encouraged an endemic level of laziness and indolence among this country's lawyers and law students. It needs to stop today.

It's pointless. During peak season, he has 15-20 interns, and rarely ever interacts with them.

If you want any interaction, you'll have to wait till 10-11 in the night when he finally gets free from all his conferences.

You'll be in courts until 4. Your only job is to text on the group what the current matter number in the court is. Basically a human version of a display board.

If you want to learn how courts function, it is a great place. You can just chill, roam around HC, meet your college friends, and just update as the display board updates.

But if you want to learn actual litigation don't even bother. Drafting work is there, but there is nobody to oversee, or make sure you learn, since everyone else is busy.

Bits is overall trying really hard to get good students, they have had a decent internship placement cycle, having law firms and general counsels offering internships directly to the law school. We have had legal internships at Kelloggs, Nivea, Metro, Crisil and much more, law firms mae we had SNG partners and a few more again. Our next internship cycle will be the best one after we get in 3rd year law firms, very well known law firms tier1 and tier 2 are interested in giving internships directly through the college. Pretty excited for that honestly. Our 1st years in this summer cycle will also be interning under a few tier 2 law firms and under in house general counsels.
So more or less internships are not a problem.

Coming to academics, its extremely rigorous you will def bawl your eyes out. They have extremely high standards for checking and getting like a 55 out of 100 in a subject means youre doing great. Scholarship students are the most mentally affected students since their minimum criteria to keep the scholarship is 65/100 which is EXTREMELY difficult.
Overall the college is struggling in making a culture, but with the new batch coming in we expect that many students will be in the campus and that would add on to more activity participation in campus thus leading to cultural built up in BITS.

Overall the college is s great choice if you have the budget for it. Because financial pressure along with the scholarship pressure would hurt you mentally a lot. But, if you're up for it then your choice.

One good thing about the college is that, unlike most law school toxicity, most of the students in bits aren't insecure about their careers, they are chill and this means you wont be having toxic competition but more of a healthy competition with your peers, seniors will always be more than reachable no ragging no bullyin in college takes place its a chill college with chill people.

But, the social sitaution would be yours to handle, because that is not in anyone's hands.

Now are students satisfied? well actually yes, but also no because since its a new college and we have been a batch of less than 300 students we were run through administration experiments on a spectrum to be tested.

Unlike us, that won't happen to you'll because then will have more students and then studetns will be given autonomy for decision making, atleast thats what we believe should happen.

More or less, BITS surpasses NMIMS and AMITY any SENSE. But please make sure you're not quite literally taking an education loan. Its actually extremely expensive, and its fees has an increment of 8% every year.

You wouldn't want to graduate with an education loan of 75-80 lacs to fill in.

1. Not just a mental health counsellor, but a team of mental health counsellors. And don't give me the shit about no funds. The unis supposedly have money to fund corruption, bad teachers/admin and all sorts of crap, this would just be a better way to spend it.

2. The counselling needs to be available on every working day.

3. I think the cases of serious intervention cannot and should not be dealt with in, or by, the universities. Even the best universities of the world do not do that. However, what they do which we should learn to emulate is that they have established referal processes to the state health system when they realise that the mental health problem is serious (oh but of course, a priori assumption: the state health system functions!).

4. Universities need to have support systems in place for out of office hours needs as well. For example, partnerships with mental health hotlines.

Hey everybody. Lets create a pay chart containing details of how much firms have paid for past fiscal (including bonus). I work at a small firm based out in Delhi. I got 8+2.5 lpa (A0 level). Also, please let me know how exactly DCM differs from ECM in terms of pay, scope and work in the long and short run. Thanks.

I had gotten a PPO from one of the lower paying T1 firms last year but I rejected since I had conviction that I will make it to either Trilegal or KCO. Now I have been rejected by both Trilegal and KCO. The HR of my older firm is not reverting back on my request to consider me again. My grades have dipped a lot too, I don’t think I got a shot Day 0. My mental health is in the drain. Please advise.

No. It's just more authoritarian. That's not how freedom works. Who does and doesn't count as state? Is it just people on government pay roll? is it just for the work they do in their professional capacity? is it also lobby groups? is it also people who work in NGOs who try to move the state to do one thing or another? is it also government teachers and doctors who might be doing malpractice? what about those in aided institutions? What about temples and mosques and churches that get tax breaks? what if they exclude women and lower caste fellows from their spaces? what about media houses that get money in advertising revenue from the government? what about individual influencers who get money from political parties? are political parties state? are they not? theyre expressly private entities but I cannot criticise a political party for its religious/ caste rhetoric?

What are we engaging in this exercise for? What harm is it that we're so concerned about avoiding? Why are we starting from the fundamentally illiberal position that free speech is bad and must be an exception and not the norm? Why do you dislike our Constitution?

It certainly isnt more reasonable because any harm youre talking about when its just "hate speech" is at best a dignity harm. There's no physical harm. And dignity rights are simply not absolute. Other people have rights too. If there is physical harm- we already have IPC and BNS. most offences against body and property are well defined.

Who even said the state is the only actor to be held accountable? You either have a free speech country where we disagree with each other, learn how to disagree with each other, and build. Or you have a society where you will never progress because you are actively repressing speech. Why on earth do you want to live in a society where you couldn't question religious orthodoxies or casteist groups or sexist groups?

Honestly, I am baffled that this is a lawyer's forum when basic free speech ideas are so poorly understood. Your education system has failed you, I'm afraid.

But the problem doesn't even end with you. We're already in a country where press freedom is under attack by the government. Now whatever is left of free speech will be scavenged by woke idiots. And you'll still never see that you've become that which you detest.

what are you even trying to say? Who has higher capital? You do understand whichever side of the political aisle youre on- the other side always assumes youre benefitting from flattering media coverage?

Issues of access to press are different from issues of free expression.

You can split hairs and split hairs until you have identified your way out of upper class. But everyone knows youre bullshitting. Do you know what 45k gets you? does it get you IB education for kids? does it get you amity/jindal/ harvard degrees?

You understand people who go to these places pay something close to 8-10 lakhs a year all told? Who in the world is saving that with a 70 k salary and a family to feed I wonder?

Hello, I gave clat in 2020 and was in a similar situation, jindal was not an option for me as well because of the cost. I decided to join one of the private colleges you have mentioned as a backup and then went on to give MHCET, got into GLC. Since GLC at the time had relaxed attendance requirements, students could intern and secure placements (I am also placed at a T1 firm). Currently the best way forward would be to take up a backup private college and give your best shot at Mhcet. Ideally choose ILS over GLC, because their administration and curriculum seems to be better than GLC rn and because GLC also has strong attendance requirements now.

Also make sure whichever college you end up in, stay in the top 5/10% of the batch depending on the batch size, because that will ultimately help you secure desired placements.

Lastly don't worry, everyone finds their way regardless of their clat rank