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Lol what you smoking up bro
It’s ridiculous to claim this is the same as floridaman or the same as incel stuff. Floridaman exists because of a law in Florida the sunshine act that unsealed court records and allowed people to report on petty stuff. I don’t think rape and sexual harassment and pedophilia are petty.
Do you really think women who are victims of rape and assault and stalking and being videoed in restrooms and children who are victims of sexual assault are in the same category as men who are upset because they’re not getting sex they think they’re owed by women ? You think those two things are equivalent ?
There’s no talking to someone whose immediate reaction to seeing all of those cases is not “ omg that’s horrible” and is instead “ ew why are bigots reporting these cases ?”
This isn’t about one off cases that don’t form a pattern. Females rarely commit sex crimes. Like 98% of the time it’s males. There are studies to show that male pattern criminality doesn’t vanish after a man transitions to woman. Like 50-60% of the “trans women “ in prison in the Uk are there because of sexual offences. The comparable rate for cis men is 20-30%.
You keep arguing that it doesn’t happen, or that if it does happen it must be too rare, if it isn’t too rare then it’s irrelevant, and if it isn’t irrelevant it must be because women are bigots and brainwashed and crazy. You’ve closed your mind off to the fact that maybe you might have been sold an ideology that does harm.
You literally have someone on this thread comparing heterosexuality (and by implication homosexuality) to only dating within caste and how “sexually shunned” groups might be right in their thinking even if they should have been more polite.
Only one side has produced facts in this discussion. Your side has only chided and scolded and shamed and censored. Where are facts disproving a single thing I’ve said ? When presented with evidence absolutely none of you have seriously considered it without dismissing it as being too crazy and stemming from resentful.
You keep saying I’m comparing harm when the other side hasn’t proven any harm at all - only asserted it in some mealy mouthed way. Besides you would be hard pressed to find cases of terfs assaulting or being violent toward trans people. Because violence is a male thing. Think about that. There is more hatred online from trans activists toward terfs who only mostly argue that sex is real, than towards men who actually beat up and murder trans people. What is the argument ? Men targeting another group of men should mean women have to stop speaking truth and mollify and validate and self erase ?
There’s no point to tallying up harm ? There’s no point to knowing who was hurt and by whom and when ? Why ? Cause it makes your worldview and your convictions difficult to maintain ? Can you imagine saying that about any other group except women ? Can you imagine saying that about victims of caste atrocities or communalism or naziism? It’s only because theyre women you think we should all shut up about it because it’s impolite.
You congratulate women for being polite and kind as if that is what they were made to do. You think resentment is bad because it’s unearned. There are values more important than politeness and good feelings. Values like truth, like reason, like honesty, integrity, standing up for those weaker than you, courage, defiance. What a sad world where women only get to be polite- they don’t get to be any of those other things without being shamed.
This might be condescending - but stop trying to have the last word when you know you’ve lost. You’ve done nothing in this thread except scold and police women who dare to dissent from your orthodoxy. Take some time and go look in the mirror - consider why you want to play that role in the first place.
IMHO that's part of the problem with this debate - the media and echochambers in this can be so one-sided and motivated to stir outrage and get clicks or online clout about their cause they actually hinder reasoned debate.
And comparing and tallying up of harms gets us nowhere helpful.
Thanks both sides for, at least in part, your apparent efforts in trying to keep keep the tone of this conversation civil and mostly semi-polite and factual though. It is appreciated.
If trans lesbians are women they can date themselves - why do they need actual old school lesbians to date and have sex with their male bodies for validation? If trans men are men - is that why no means no is hard for them to understand ? Why do they think it’s the job of straight women to repress their sexuality to affirm trans mens masculinity ?
In any situation in life if you feel yourself aligning with people who would argue that wants to control female sexuality in this way- you should reconsider your worldview.
I really worry that young women don’t have the backbone to resist this and are instead so keen to please others and appear virtuous that they don’t stand up for themselves and their freedoms. Female socialisation is a dangerous thing. Even now you think it’s more important to be kind and understanding to other people than to be kind and understanding to yourselves or other women.
Ambedkar didn’t believe in forcing Brahmin girls to feel guilty about who they married. He believed in liberating all women to marry outside their caste by changing laws that punished exogamous marriages. He understood womens preferences were not because they were evil bigots. That they had a right to those preferences because it was their body- and sought to change those preferences by changing society in how it constrains women. That’s a very different stance than that idiot on twitter telling upper caste women they owe him sex and dates while barely masking his own misogyny.
It’s not kind to erase yourself and your own experiences or to pour all your sympathy into people who do not care for you. Women do not exist to be therapists and to provide absolution to people who do not like them.
Freedom has to mean freedom for women - straight and gay to choose for themselves without coercion who they love.
The right wing sees women as private property and the left sees them as public property. We are neither. We’re fully human.
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Pradeep Rai - 689
Adish Aggarwala - 283
Lots behind these stats. The BJP could have fielded a strong candidate like Meenakshi Lekhi or Pinky Anand and they could have got the girl vote as well. Adish Aggarwala is not respected even by BJP supporters. Some BJP supporters voted for other candidates instead, leading to vote cutting.
Terrible strategising by the BJP IMO.
The other question is what Sibal will do now? He will use it to the hilt to do pro-Congress politics.
Can somebody tell us what your experience was and what the process is like ?
https://www.legallyindia.com/convos/topic/358653-What-an-Illuminating-discussion-on-Pt-Nehru-Link-Inside
https://www.legallyindia.com/convos/topic/358650-Why-have-the-SCBA-Elections-become-this-rabid-
https://www.livelaw.in/articles/importance-of-kapil-sibals-win-as-scba-president-supreme-court-bar-association-258145
Like I'm sure law firms don't take students from first year. So what are the other options considering 1 month goes towards the ngo work (as per bar council)...so 3 months remain.
I'm going into a t1 NLU and 2nd generation lawyer, if that is of any help in answering my query.